Often we can become hyper-focused on the ways in which our partner and our relationship is not measuring up to how it “used to be” or what we want it to be. These disappointments and changes can so easily be seen as evidence that your relationship is doomed or otherwise headed for bad times. But what if you were able to learn how to view these changes and challenges are part of the development of your relationship… much like the rocky times parents feel dealing with two- and three-year-olds or even teenagers.
This interesting post by Dr. Richard Nicastro on Lisa Kift’s blog the The Healthy Relationships Place, offers a great perspective (and a little science) on why we may suddenly percieve our partner’s as different people. Check it out here- http://bit.ly/8L6xY8